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  Welcome to BMAI, The Bronx Mamaroneck ACA Intergroup website.

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  BMAI is comprised of representatives of the individual, autonomous Adult Children of

  Alcoholics/Dysfunctional Families (ACA) groups in The Bronx and Mamaroneck, New York.  

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  A trifold describing what "ACA is ..." is here.

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  BMAI's sole function is to serve our groups' primary purpose of carrying the ACA message of recovery 

  from the effects of being raised in an alcoholic/drug addicted or dysfunctional family to adult children

  who still suffer.  

 

  The trifold, "25 Questions: Am I an Adult Child?", may help you decide if you could possibly

  benefit from attending an ACA meeting.

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  BMAI facilitates communication among the member groups and between our groups and ACA's

  World Service Organization, Inc. (ACA WSO), along with other service functions and activities.

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  BMAI is fully self supported by voluntary contributions from member groups, from ACA members,

  through hosting fund raising events, and through ACA Literature sales to member groups 

  (not individual sales) at the usual delivered price.

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  BMAI meets quarterly via teleconference calls.  To join BMAI, learn how BMAI functions and

  its activities or to purchase ACA Literature, contact Lisa B. (917) 449-1035 or email her at

  Lbaitsell@verizon.net.

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  Groups thinking of joining BMAI may want to consider reading Trusted Servant’s Self Guide to Service

  - The abc’s of service (attitudes, behaviors and conduct).  Please note this is not ACA WSO Conference

  Approved Literature.

 

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BMAI Member Groups as of January 2022

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M a m a r o n e c k   M e e t i n g

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ACA True Self

Thursdays

6:00 - 7:00 pm

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T h e   B r o n x   M e e t i n g s 

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Speaking Our Truth

Tuesdays 

1 - 2 pm

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The Original 4x4 Meeting

Thursdays

   7 - 8 pm

About Our Members

About Our Groups

 

ACA True Self

Thursdays

6:00 - 7:00 pm

Mamaroneck, NY

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ACA True Self is an autonomous weekly closed meeting (meaning the meeting is open to all people who identify as being ACA or from dysfunctional families) and has a rotating format: 

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First Thursday                                              Beginner's Meeting

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Second Thursday                        Step of the Corresponding Month Meeting*

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Third Thursday                                                  Trait Meeting*

                                          (The speaker will choose the Trait they wish to discuss)

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Fourth Thursday                           The Solution Meeting* (Chapter 8 of BRB)

                                                                    Becoming Your Own Loving Parent.

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Fifth Thursday                                                 Short Meditation+

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*  The ACA Steps are here.

 

    The Laundry Lists Traits are here.   

 

    The Fellowship Text excerpt of Chapter 8Becoming Your Own Loving Parent, is here.

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Traits Meditations 

Strengthening My Recovery   Trait 1-    Page 13;       Trait 2 -  Page 39;      Trait 3 -   Page 65;

                                                Trait 4 -   Page 94;       Trait 5 -  Page 121;     Trait 6 -  Page 150;   

                                                Trait 7 -   Page 171;     Trait 8 -  Page 200;     Trait 9 -  Page 229;   

                                                Trait 10 - Page 255;     Trait 11 - Page 283;    Trait 12 - Page 311;   

                                                Trait 13 - Page 338;     Trait 14 - Page 366. â€‹

 

Since the COVID 19 situation, The ACA True Self meeting is being held via Zoom.

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The Zoom link information is 96981818795.

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For passcode send email to: LBaitsell@gmail.com OR Kiam@aol.com.

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Meetings originally held at:

Christian Science Churches

155 Fenimore Rd

Take Stairs On Side Of Church To Basement 

Mamaroneck, New York 10543

 

Meeting Contact:

Lisa B. (917) 449-1035

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    Speaking Our Truth     

Tuesdays  

1 - 2 pm

Bronx, New York

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Speaking Our Truth is an autonomous weekly open meeting (meaning anyone can attend) and has a rotating format: 

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First Tuesday                                              Newcomer's Meeting                            

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The first Tuesday of the month is a Newcomer's Meeting meaning anyone interested in learning more about ACA is welcome to attend.  Meeting reading materials, Welcome to ACA, can be found here.  A trifold explaining the process of recovery, "To The Beginner in All of Us", can be accessed here.

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Second Tuesday                                           ACA Step Meeting

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The second Tuesday of the month of the month is an ACA Step Meeting.  The meeting focuses on the ACA Step corresponding to the month (e.g., the January Step Meeting focuses on the First Step, etc., etc.).  ACA's 12  Steps can be found here.

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Third Tuesday                  The Solution - Becoming Your Own Loving Parent Meeting

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The third Tuesday of the month focuses on The Solution - Becoming Your Own Loving Parent, Chapter 8 of the Fellowship Text aka Big Red Book (BRB).  The Solution - Becoming Your Own Loving Parent meeting reading materials can be found here.

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Fourth Tuesday                                           ACA Traditions Meeting

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The fourth Tuesday of the month focuses on the ACA Tradition corresponding to the month (e.g., January's Tradition Meeting focuses on the First Tradition, etc., etc.).  ACA's 12 Traditions can be found here.

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Fifth Tuesday                                                   Meditation Meeting

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The fifth Tuesday of the month focuses on the Meditation of the corresponding day from the Strengthening Our Recovery ACA book.  

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Business meetings are held the third week of February, May, August, and November.

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Since the COVID 19 situation, all Bronx meetings are being held by

Telephone Conference Call 

(667) 770-1397 Access code: 283113

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Meetings originally held at:

St. Andrew's Episcopal Church

781 Castle Hill Avenue

The Bronx, New York 10473

 

Meeting Contact:

Larry A. (646) 483-3066  

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The Original 4x4

"We cover the four Laundry Lists, 4 Traits at a time"

Thursdays

7 - 8 pm

Bronx, New York

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The Original 4x4 (aka Bronx ACA) is an autonomous weekly open meeting (meaning anyone can attend) and focuses on the 14 Laundry Lists Traits, one set of 4 traits per meeting, using the Laundry Lists Workbook reading.  The Laundry Lists traits can be found here.  

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8/2024 - 7/2025 Traits Calendar ​​

     Jan. '25               Feb. '25           March '25          April '25             May '25           June '25   

  2nd = Trait 4          6th  = Trait 9        6th = Trait 13         3rd = Trait 3        1st = Trait 7        5th = Trait 12

   9th = Trait 5         13th = Trait 10     13th = Trait 14*    10th = Trait 4        8th = Trait 8      12th = Trait 13

16th  = Trait 6         20th = Trait 11     20th = Trait 1        17th = Trait 5      15th = Trait 9       19th = Trait 14*

23rd = Trait 7          27th = Trait 12     27th = Trait 2        24th = Trait 6     22nd = Trait 10     26th = Trait 1

30th = Trait 8                                                                                                 29th = Trait 11                                                          

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    July '25              August '24          Sept. '24          Oct. '24           Nov. '24                Dec. "24

  3rd = Trait 2          1st = Trait 10           5th = Trait 1      3rd = Trait 5      7th = Trait 10         5th = Trait 14*

10th = Trait 3          8th = Trait 11         12th = Trait 2     10th = Trait 6    14th = Trait 11        12th = Trait 1

17st = Trait 4         15th = Trait 12         19th = Trait 3    17th = Trait 7     21st = Trait 12        19th = Trait 2

24th = Trait 5        22nd = Trait 13         26th = Trait 4    24th = Trait 8     28th = Trait 13?      26th = Trait 3

31st = Trait 6         29th = Trait 14*                                  31st = Trait 9

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* Business Meeting.

? Holidays.

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+ Strengthening My Recovery Trait 1- Page 13;      Trait 2 - Page 39;     Trait 3 - Page 65; Trait 4 - Page 94

                                                 Trait 5 - Page 121;    Trait 6 - Page 150;   Trait 7 - Page 171

                                                 Trait 8 - Page 200;    Trait 9 - Page 229;   Trait 10 - Page 255

                                                 Trait 11 - Page 283;  Trait 12 - Page 311; Trait 13 - Page 338; and 

                                                 Trait 14 - Page 366. 

 

Since the COVID 19 situation, all Bronx meetings are being held by

Telephone Conference Call 

(667) 770-1397 Access code: 283113

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Meetings originally held at:

St. Andrew's Episcopal Church

781 Castle Hill Avenue

The Bronx, New York 10473

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Meeting Contact:

Larry A. (646) 483-3066  

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Teachers

Join Us

The Bronx Mamaroneck ACA Intergroup

Contact: Lisa B (917) 449-1035

Lbaitsell@verizon.net

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